Young children are adaptable

It is important to be watchful of the little ones during relocation. Although very young children are: adaptable, they can be very sensitive to a disruption in their routines  and to changes in the perceived stress of their parents. While the packing and unpacking are in progress have a sitter or close friend attend to the infants or younger children to avoid having young children under foot on moving day and be sure to keep their favorite blanket and a few toys separated to take with you.

For infants:

Keep baby food and bottles in your own carry-on or handy in the car. 

You may need baby towels, an extra blanket, clothes, other food, some toys, etc. 

Be sure to take an ample supply of bottles and diapers to keep the baby comfortable. 

Make sure temperature is neither too hot nor too cold. 

Make sure infant has plenty of room to sleep. 

Check infant and child seats to be sure that they are appropriate for the size of the child.

For toddlers: 

Take enough toys, books and games to keep toddlers happy and entertained. 

DVDs/CDs/tape players with “read me a book” tapes can be very helpful.

Have healthy snacks readily available.

Care, feeding, and resting: 

Keep babies and little children on a schedule that approximates their usual eating, nap and bedtime schedule. 

Be sure that they get balanced meals and enough rest. 

Keep children moving. Exercise is important. 

Choose mealtime places with special accommodations for children to run and play. Try to find hotels with swimming pools and playrooms and restaurants that cater to children.

Include your children in your plans for the new area:

For toddlers show them pictures of their new home. 

Teach them to say the name of their new town and some interesting facts such as whether there’s a children’s museum, or a zoo.

Allow the child to select 1 or 2 toys, stuffed animals, books, etc. that he/she especially

Likes to take with them on the trip.

Help them fit in: 

Young toddlers feel more at home if they have some playmates. 

Help them to find children of their own age in the neighborhood. 

Make use of the child development programs and resources on your installation. They can advise on “child-friendly” places, playgroups, and childcare and supply information to help children adjust.

Although most children adapt easily, the stress of relocation can upset even the most resilient children.  If you need more information or assistance on relocating, or moving with young children please contact the Fleet and Family Support Center at 1-866-854-0638.